Thursday, January 8, 2009

One day closer to Friday!

Do you ever wonder what goes on inside a woman's brain when she decides to be a home wrecker?? Seriously! Are these women so desperate that you don't think they could find a good man? Do they just want what they can't have? A good example is when you know a guy has a girlfriend or a wife, you keep sending texts, emailing, calling, etc...unless you are good friends with him and have known each other for some time, stop! Now, this isn't to say that the woman is always to blame, because married or taken men should act married or taken. Harmless flirting is one thing, but continuing to have a relationship with somebody you met on Myspace 2 years ago that you never see is not a friend. Somebody that you met in a chat room or match.com last year when you were single, you never see them or have only met them once, that is not a friend. You are just asking for disaster and drama. For many the it's the excitement, the hunt, going after what you don't have... all of it is enticing. But we don't need to let those emotions take over what our conscience or sense of decency knows. NOW I found this next piece on another blog which is very interesting.

Ten Characteristics of Great Men

1. Great men have their priorities in line. They know what is truly important in life, and live accordingly.

2. Great men are tender with those in need of tenderness. They are kind to the elderly, children, and those with disabilities.

3. Great men respect and honor women. They don't objectify, degrade, or demean them.

4. Great men participate in the community. They may spend time volunteering, working for a cause, or being involved with a charity.

5. Great men are honest, and have a sense of morality, integrity, and decency. They have an internal awareness of what is or is not appropriate, good, right, or decent.

6. Great men have a sense of purpose. They do not waste inordinate amounts of time in from of the TV or playing video games. They can balance fun and relaxation with work and productivity.

7. Great men are continually expanding their minds. They do not think they know it all and are open to new ideas and insights.

8. Great men have a healthy sense of self. They are confident and secure while maintaining a sense of humility.

9. Great men help and assist others. Whether in their place of employment, in their daily lives, or in the greater world at large, they have a sense of giving back.

10. Great men are in touch with their feelings, emotions, concerns, and even shortcomings. They don't feel a need for pretense or power. They can cry, have compassion, and acknowledge mistakes. They can love and be loved.

Note, a great man is not measured by the amount of money he has, the kind of car he drives, the size of his biceps, or outward appearance.

A great man reflects his greatness in his everyday life.

AMEN!

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